seemingly Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Hi all! As per thread title, how did you tell your partner that you were pregnant? I've seen some elaborate announcement ideas online, but to be honest, have no idea of how I'd do it myself. Would you be willing to share your story/stories? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seayork2002 Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 He was cooking pork chops, I went upstairs to take the test the he said the way I came down stairs he knew. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VeritasVinumArte Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Umm peed on a stick and called him in saying we were pregnant. No elaborate thought here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie28 Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 He looked at the stick first all three times- I was too scared. The two miscarriages I had I looked first and told him straight away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Babetty Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 I can't remember so obviously nothing very fancy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie28 Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 I did consider a fancy announcement for DH, but the trauma of IVF etc in order to get pregnant kind of knocked the wind out of that sail. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chillipeppers Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 I was at work when I took the test so I had to send him a message on messenger when I got back to my desk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolly_F Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 First 2 I just told him when I wa s doing the he test. The third he got in the car when I picked him up from work and I handed him a pregnancy test and he was like ewww then was like ohhhhh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paddlepop Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 We were doing IVF so I was testing every morning. Pretty sure I just got super excited, showed him the test and told him. Nothing fancy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf87 Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Both IVF pregnancies so that kind of takes the fun out of any kind of announcement. First time we had had a fight the night before I tested so I just angrily told him it was positive. When I got the NIPT result back with the sex of the baby I did a cute balloon and ‘daddy’s girl’ baby gro thing to surprise him as I got the results a lot quicker than expected. Current pregnancy I just did the test, he knew I had planned to test on a particular day as I had told him, and when it was positive I just went and showed him. Nothing exciting. Didn’t get to do the cutesy NIPT thing either as I got dodgy results back so instead we were more concerned there was something wrong with the baby (amnio came back clear thankfully). Before infertility while we were just trying I used to fantasise about how I would tell DH, but yeah IVF certainly takes any joy out of the 2ww etc. There are some cool ideas online though! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sancti-claws Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 In both instances they knew before I did any test because my cycle is a topic of conversation if you are in a relationship with me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaLittleEd Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 I just told him. Don't see the need to do anything fancy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emissary Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Walked down the stairs and went “omg I’m pregnant”. DH’s first reaction was “are you ok?”... as he knew it was an absolute shock to my system. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mooguru Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 DH was away so I waited like a week till I joined him, expecting us to have some alone time, but my FIL picked me up then when DH arrived I kinda acted weirdly and he guessed whilst hoping his family in the next room wasn't listening in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
squeekums-the-elf Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 So ahh im not dying..... im pregnantBackstory A friend poked my stomach one day, was then worried about my past heavy drinking and liver/kidney failure which her dad had passed from a month or so earlier and insisted i see a gp, she came withWe left that appointment finding out i was *roughly six months* pregnant. Well that was the GP guessI go home, walk in and literally said, well im not dying im pregnant and she thinks about 6 monthsRushed dating scan 2 days later put me at 7 months based on the size of DD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sancti-claws Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Oh goodness [mention]squeekums-the-elf[/mention] - that would have been a shock! Did the baby arrive around the due date? Did you have no other symptoms or had you attributed them to other things? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silverstreak Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Earlier that night, after eating cheezels, lol, I'd told DH that I just had a feeling and wanted to test, so I drove to the shops at the last minute. Took a test as soon as I came home and almost fell off the toilet seat, I was so shocked. Raced into the garage waving the stick. At the time, DH was finishing off a uni project that was due the next day. He said "That's great, babe", before getting back to it! Then I rang my parents at 11.30 pm. Exciting times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silverstreak Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 I have heard of cake reveals when you cut a cake open and it's pink or blue, or when you release a pink or blue smoke somehow, but I couldn't be bothered, personally. You could also put the stick in a card if you wanted and hand it to your DP. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LemonMyrtle Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Nothing special. First one was IVF so we were expecting the phone call anyway, I called him after cause I was at work and he was at work.Second one I just tested at home and told him when he got home by basically waving a test in his face. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillipa Crawford Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Dh knew my cycle as much as I did.I was always very regular so there wasn't much telling Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
squeekums-the-elf Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Oh goodness @squeekums-the-elf - that would have been a shock! Did the baby arrive around the due date? Did you have no other symptoms or had you attributed them to other things?Oh to say the least, i was never going to have kids at all lolYep, arrived right on the date givenAll was fine tooNothing i did in that time alerted me and i did everything and more on the do not EVER do while pregnant, like show rides, drinking binges, music festivals.I got sick once, it was food poisoning, 5 other people got it in the course i was in at time too after we ate lunch at wrong placeI didnt even show till close on 30 weeks, from what ive been told/read over years, i carried to the back with thick placenta which is why i also felt nothingGot what seemed like a regular period throughoutI was out of hospital in 24 hours, went in about 11, had dd by 2, right back in my regular jeans, i literally only went to a size 10 in weeks before i had ddim that medical freak you hear about lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nom_de_plume Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 Older two - previous partner was waiting outside the bathroom door while I POAS so we both found out together.Youngest - I bought a test on the way home from work and did it as soon a so got home. It was positive. I called and told DP straight away and he came over. I was almost 4 months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seayork2002 Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 I was 4 weeks (supposedly) but my friend's sister growing up was 6 months when she found out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackcat20 Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 First one I walked into the bedroom and said "two lines". He had no idea I was taking the test as we thought I'd had my period about three weeks earlier, but I started feeling queasy the day before.This time I just handed him the test and he said "told you". Again I thought I had got my period but the queasiness suggested otherwise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Romeo Void Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 One source of sadness for me, with doing IVF, was that we would never have that magic moment... that 'darling, we're going to have a baby' thing where I break the wonderful news to him. When our DD was 20 months I started feeling odd, so did a PG test I had kicking around in a draw (I can't be the only one that's ended up with a draw full of unused tests/syringes/ alcohol wipes etc??) I'd just got a positive PG test and I think 'THIS IS IT, I can have my moment'. So I'm waiting in the kitchen when he comes home, with the test in front of me on the counter. I've got that look on my face, the trying to look cool but too excited to suppress it look. He kisses me on the cheek, looks down and say's 'what's this'? and I say 'what do you think it is darling?' He looks confused then says. 'But we haven't had sex?!' At this point my smile drops and I may have even done an eye roll and I say 'yes we have!' And he say's 'yeah...but not much'. And I say 'yeah but SOME'And that my friends, was my romantic reveal to my DH. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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